A divorce can already be a traumatic and highly stressful time for your family. That said, the last thing you probably want is to take the proceedings to court.
Luckily, there is another option: Mediation. In a divorce, mediation allows two parties to discuss matters openly and negotiate with the help of a mediator. It can be especially helpful in more complicated issues that need solving, such as child care arrangements.
What is divorce mediation?
Mediation is a type of dispute resolution where divorcing couples resolve conflicts and negotiate matters with a neutral third party facilitating. It can help with financial issues, family home decisions, asset divisions, child-related matters and more.
Why consider mediation for child-related arrangements?
There are a lot of things divorcing parents need to tackle to maintain their children’s best interests. For example, you and your former spouse need to agree on custody arrangements, visitation schedules, parenting plans and child support calculations.
During court proceedings, there may not be a lot of flexibility to come up with the best solutions for everyone. On the other hand, mediation allows for creative, tailored solutions and are generally less rigid. Furthermore, it promotes cooperation between parents, which is crucial for future co-parenting.
Mediations also typically reaches faster resolutions compared to court proceedings, which means less time spent in court and more time supporting your children through the divorce.
When to choose mediation instead of divorce court
Of course, mediation is not an option for everyone. But it is a great alternative to court proceedings when:
- Both parents are willing to cooperate and can set aside intense emotions
- You want to reduce conflict
- The family needs more flexible solutions for child care
- The children’s needs are complex
- You want privacy for your family
- You want to establish better communication patterns for future co-parenting
Still, you shouldn’t go into mediation blind. Consider working with an experienced family lawyer who can help you through the mediation process and guide you through every decision. With both parents working together and proper legal guidance, mediation also typically reaches an outcome that is best for your entire family.
