Adolescents tend to act more independently during divorce. Seeing their parents struggle may make them feel obligated to take on more responsibilities at home or find ways to cope alone. Your teenager may appear mature and confident, tempting you to lean on them....
Divorce
Can divorce ever benefit children?
You would do anything for your children, even if that means sacrificing your own happiness to protect theirs. However, choosing to remain in a marriage plagued with constant conflict and negativity may do more harm than good. Although a united family is generally best...
How does mediation work in Vermont?
Nobody truly understands the dynamics and needs of your family better than you and your spouse. Amidst a divorce, mediation may give you both a platform to discuss and negotiate terms together while striving for a resolution that best serves the whole family. This...
I’ve finally decided to get divorced. What are my rights?
Deciding to end a marriage is not easy, but it may be exactly what you need. When embarking on the path of divorce, it is vital to be aware of your rights. Knowing what you are entitled to may give you better control over an undoubtedly difficult phase of your life....
How is property split during divorce in Vermont?
Divorce sometimes involves taking apart the life you’ve built with your spouse. Everything you’ve acquired and shared during your marriage must now be tallied, evaluated and then divided. Although a clean 50/50 split seems appropriate, Vermont abides by equitable...
My spouse filed for divorce. What do I do now?
During the holidays, you might have held out hope for your marriage after realizing that the joy of keeping a complete family outweighs the disputes you have with your spouse. You were determined to use the new year to mend your marital relationship. So, learning that...
How can I move on if I’m getting divorced?
Divorce throws your life off course. It turns the individual you consider your primary anchor into someone destabilizing your life. It also causes sudden and simultaneous turbulence in other areas – your personalities, routines, beliefs and goals. However, moving past...
Vermont is among the top 10 states for long-lasting marriages
It's often said that half of all U.S. marriages end in divorce, but this is simply not true. In fact, the divorce rate nationwide has been declining for many years. And, since Americans are generally living longer lives, this means that marriages are generally lasting...
How can you emotionally prepare and get through your divorce?
The range of emotions associated with divorce can arguably be a league of its own. It often runs the whole gamut of intense feelings. But even before you take on the emotional rollercoaster, fear strikes first. You fear all uncertainties – how you’ll handle the...
Filing an answer to a divorce petition in Vermont
Your spouse has already gotten the ball rolling by filing a divorce complaint with the court, along with the requisite forms and filing fee. They will be considered the plaintiff in the case, while you will be considered the defendant. Copies of the completed forms...